Mitigate the weeping soul
Everyone in their lifetime might have faced this stich. One of the members of a family had fallen ill, due to that the entire family might undergo depression. If a family is facing a sudden illness of kith and kin, all the members of the family will be shocked and insensible. It is a general feeling that everyone uses to have. First, your mind has to accept the reality and as the days passed the heart will start to understand. Be alert about how the family is going to come up with this situation.
The menage who shares openly about their inner feelings and illness can easily cope up with the situation. The family with the members doesn’t talk with each other, is difficult to acknowledge the sufferings and its effects.
Sick of the person affects his mind, feeling, and soul. The sick person will be experiencing various emotions such as panic, unease, vexation, guilt, depression, and isolation. These emotions are common among the ill person. The main role of the caring ménage is to listen to their words and respect their emotions without attempting to change them. Don’t try to take the feelings out of them.
Another essential thing that a caretaker should do is to study the sickness of the individual. It aids to identify their sufferings and behavior during the sick and the way to react to them in that situation.
If the family is possessing faith, it should be expressed appropriately. Few may find relaxed and comfortable in singing or reading spiritual texts together or lonely and attending religious events. If that is so, then it has to be permitted. The sick people may keep persons who respect and understand the religious beliefs. Some may get irritated at God because of the sickness; realize that it is a normal and natural response from a person with the illness.
Normally, everyone will be much concerned about his health and survival, when a family member is ill. It involves a great physical and emotional burden to everyone in the family.
The members of a family should not lose their self-needs. Consider seeking help from external sources such as engaging a caretaker, have foodstuffs delivered, have a housekeeper, have a family consulting. They have to be strong enough by taking enough rest, having a balanced diet. Even though the family is facing a serious time, they should spend some time being happy by planning fun events, taking vacations together or separately, having enough time to laugh, love, and enjoy.
An ill person from a family can be cured by the way how the family is around him. It is the responsibility of the entire family to give him the confidence that they are with him and he is not a burden to the family. It will be the greatest support to him and it helps him to come out of the guilt feeling.
